Dear fighting couples,
When fighting, don’t bring your kids into the fight. Bringing them into the fight is a total disrespect of their person and the height of parental irresponsibility.
It is okay to have disagreement as couples, it’s even not an abomination to separate or eventually divorce over irreconcilable issues but never hurt your kids by bringing them into the centre of the whole mess.
Both of you must commit to peace for the sake of your kids. However, when one party is a threat to the peace of the child, you must protect that child at all cost against him or her.
You may have made a terrible decision is your choice of a spouse, but your child didn’t come into the world by any decision of his or hers, you must commit yourself to ensuring that for the fact you brought your kid into the world, you must make them grow and decide to live for themselves.
Like I said before, don’t feel terrible if your relationship eventually didn’t work out, you aren’t the first and won’t be the last, but commit yourself to ensure your kid lives his or her best of life.